NO, I'm not going around like a Spanish machine--yet. But I've found myself piecing together sentences little by little, and the girls at the Bolivian Hope Center tell me every day that I've learned more. Thank God for that because language barriers are so frustrating.
Besides the language, I've seen a lot more of everyday life here. We are always having to check the news because of blockades that could prevent us from going to the BHC, the grocery store, etc. Sometimes things can get pretty violent, so we stay away. Right now, there are several groups blocking. Lately, they have been marching in the streets instead. I've never seen anything like this.
Another thing that I'm not used to is the fact that they hardly discipline their children here. I have a very hard time dealing with the First Steps kids sometimes because no one has disciplined them, and obviously, I'm not their parent. You'd be incredibly surprised to see how many times they will hit each other in one day. I've been slapped by them several times a day as well. I guess I'm still figuring out what to do with all of that.
I've never realized before how helpful teams are to missionaries. People have said before that sending money is better, but I'm not so sure of that now. Yes, money is great and needed.... But paying to come and help work for a week is very effective as well. There are projects, such as building buildings, that need workers. Here in Bolivia, it's hard to find a volunteer. Everyone wants to know what they'll be paid. So, next time you think that going doesn't help as much, think again.
I know this isn't a very long and exciting post, but I'm going to end it with a link the the BHC website. I really encourage you to think about making a donation. This ministry is changing lives. Neglected children now have a home, a bed, and food in their stomachs every day because of what's going on over here. Wouldn't you like to be a part? Click: Bolivian Hope Center
As always, thanks for reading.
"Chau"
(Yes, that's the way they spell it here..)
Rachie, I love reading your thoughts and reflections. Great stuff! We're so proud of you.
ReplyDeleteThat last comment was from John Driver :)
ReplyDeleteRachie, what a blessed life you have and we have. We take so many things for granted. Thank you for your posts and for doing what God has called you to do.
ReplyDeleteI love you!
Titi, Marcia
"Chau" ??? ha ha ha ha!
ReplyDeleteThe correct spelling is "ciao" and at any rate they speak Spanish there, not Italian. They should say, "Adios."
As far as discipline... the more you are with the little ones, the more they will love you and the more they will want to please you. Trust me, it doesn't matter what country or culture a child is from. They want to feel accepted and they want to feel approval. If punishment is not culturally-friendly, remember that the "opposite" of punishment can also work very well. Figure out a way to reward "approved" behavior. A bag of good candy may be all you need... just make sure it's not small enough to choke on and stay away from bubble gum. And yes, I know that explaining what type of good behavior will earn the candy means a stretch in Spanish but, hey... no pain, no gain. :-) You can do this!
From: Amanda (preschool director, I work with your mom)
ReplyDeleteYes the reward system is really your best bet. Being very fast with your activities, songs, stories and entertainment (almost like a game-show host) will hopefully be so entertaining that all eyes will be on you. Songs that have hand movements to them, even nursery rhymes can simple fairy tales can have these (easy to make some up). It keeps the hands busy so hopefully success in not hitting others. I know it is tougher with the older children. Thanking those that are behaving can be an incentive for the others, all children enjoy your positive attention.
A song game that uses their name is a good way to bring a group together. To the tune of 'farmer in the dell': "(child's name) is here today, (name)is here today, hi ho the derrio, (name) is here today." Of course, I'm sure you will have to translate an adaptation into spanish, but its just an example. Children love to hear their name in stories and songs, they will wait to hear it--again, all attention on you :).
I think it is amazing what you are doing. I enjoy your mom sharing about you. You will have an amazing experience to share with others, I admire your courage. Hang in there & be safe!
Amanda
From: Amanda
ReplyDeleteAnother way to help the kids use that energy is structured 'game like' exercising. Focusing on big stretching (pretending to be an object in nature or mild mannered animal) works well. There is a lot of testimony about the relaxing properties of children's yoga. Good also for balance and body control, it helps those muscles that are craving activity. You might be able to find some positions on-line and sample some as an activity?
Hope I'm not being too 'helpful'--your mission excites me :)
Amanda
Thanks so much for the advice, Amanda! I'll definitly have to try it out. :]
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